Threesomes: Why Narcissist Encourages Partner’s Infidelity
Narcissists may encourage their partners to be unfaithful, but this is not due to masochism or sadism. Instead, it serves as a betrayal fantasy, loyalty test, dare, validation of the narcissist’s negative view of the other sex, and a way for the narcissist to reassert control. The victim’s behavior is not coerced, but rather a reaction to the toxic environment created by the narcissist. This leads to atypical behaviors and a sense of alienation for the victim.
Narcissist As Employee
Sam Vaknin discusses the behavior of narcissistic employees in the workplace. He explains how narcissistic traits manifest in the workplace, including bullying, conspiracies, and subversion. Vaknin emphasizes the contagious nature of narcissism and the need to remove such employees from the workplace to prevent the spread of toxic behavior.
My Name is Sam Vaknin: Narcissists, Psychopaths, Abuse
Sam Vaknin discusses the prevalence of narcissists and psychopaths in society, their manipulative and dangerous nature, and the importance of recognizing and coping with them. He emphasizes the unique and pervasive nature of narcissistic abuse, and the necessity of implementing a comprehensive “no-contact” strategy to protect oneself from it.
Negative Hoovering, Narcissistic Probing: YOU, the Enemy (Persecutory Object)
The process of devaluation and discard exposes the fragile, vulnerable underbelly of the narcissist. The collapse of the shared fantasy leads to a period of decompensation, where the narcissist becomes more vulnerable and passive-aggressive. Narcissistic probing involves hesitant tests and attempts to gather information to ensure the success of hoovering and avoid rejection. The narcissist may oscillate between attempting to re-idealize the target and treating them as an enemy, and may use various methods, including grooming and log bombing, to test and manipulate the target’s behavior. It is important for the target to maintain firm boundaries and not engage in aggressive behavior when responding to the narcissist’s attempts at communication.
Narcissist’s Hellscape Childhood (Short Story)
The YouTube channel features short fiction, poetry, and film reviews related to narcissism and psychopathy. The playlist includes stories about the mindset of a con artist, the experience of infidelity from a narcissist’s perspective, and the impact of an abusive household on the development of a narcissist. The stories depict a difficult and traumatic upbringing, with themes of neglect, abuse, and emotional turmoil. The narrator describes feeling like an outsider and finding solace in reading and storytelling. The stories also touch on the complex dynamics within the family, including the strained relationship between the narrator and their mother.
Narcissist: You Should Read My Mind!
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the narcissist’s belief that others should be able to read their mind. He explains that narcissists expect mind reading due to their view of others as maternal figures and their desire for symbiosis. He delves into the narcissist’s internal world, including their need for extensionality and intentionality of external objects. Vaknin also explores the impact of failing to read the narcissist’s mind on their perception of external objects and their own existence. He emphasizes the deep-rooted nature of narcissistic behaviors and the challenges in understanding and working with narcissists.
Enmeshment Types Narcissist’s, Codependent’s, Borderline’s
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the dynamics of enmeshment, engulfment, merger, fusion, and symbiosis in relationships with individuals with cluster B personality disorders. He explains the differences in these dynamics between narcissists, borderlines, and codependents, highlighting their unique approaches to intimacy and control. Vaknin also challenges common misconceptions about these behaviors and their underlying motivations.
Harmony: How Narcissist Experiences Partner’s Infidelity
The text is a story called “Harmony” about a man discovering his wife’s infidelity and their subsequent conversation. The man suggests a year-long separation to reassess their relationship, and the wife tearfully agrees to stay. The man reflects on his feelings of detachment and the inevitability of their eventual separation.
Study: Narcissists Cheat MORE? Only Partly True! (And Why They Cheat)
A study on narcissism and infidelity found that grandiose narcissistic women are more likely to have favorable attitudes towards infidelity, while their male partners are less likely to cheat. Vulnerable narcissists, both male and female, are more likely to have favorable attitudes towards infidelity. Additionally, the number of premarital partners is linked to higher rates of divorce and infidelity, with those having nine or more partners being at a higher risk. Narcissists cheat for reasons such as seeking narcissistic supply, avoiding intimacy and commitment, and asserting control. They may also use infidelity as a way to rejuvenate their primary relationship.
Narcissist Needs You to Fail Him, Let Go (with Azam Ali)
In this conversation, Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissistic abuse and the dynamics of narcissistic relationships. He explains the narcissist’s need for existence and the victim’s hunger for love and intimacy, highlighting the irreconcilable nature of these two needs. He also emphasizes the importance of insight and empathy in understanding oneself and others.