7th Extinction Engineered by Psychopath Sociosexuals, Narcissist Asexuals
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the distinctions between psychopathy and narcissism, particularly in the context of sexuality and relationships. He delves into the concepts of social sexuality and proposes a new category, dysregulated social sexuality. Vaknin also explores the impact of psychopathy and narcissism on modern dating and relationships, highlighting the prevalence of transactional sex and its correlation with dark triad traits. He criticizes the societal shift towards toxic masculinity and promiscuity, and the resulting confusion between love, intimacy, and codependency. Vaknin ultimately paints a bleak picture of the current state of relationships and sexuality, attributing it to the influence of psychopathic and narcissistic behaviors.
Testosterone, Oxytocin, Dopamine: 3 Ages of Civilization
The text discusses the three ages of civilization, each characterized by a different biochemical: testosterone, oxytocin, and dopamine. It explores how these biochemicals correspond to social and cultural structures and behaviors, such as patriarchy, romanticism, and addiction. The transition from one age to another is described as causing disorientation and societal changes. The dopamine age is depicted as an age of hedonism, atomization, and addiction, with significant implications for human behavior and society.
Tips: Narcissist Weaponizes Your Children Against You (Pop the Red Pill Podcast)
Dr. Sam Vaknin discusses narcissistic abuse and how it differs from other forms of abuse. He explains how narcissists use children as pawns to control and hurt their ex-spouses, and outlines the five techniques they use to alienate children. Vaknin emphasizes the importance of telling children the truth about the alienating parent’s harmful behaviors. Narcissistic personality disorder parents should be denied custody and granted supervised visitation only, as they are dangerous and generate sick dynamics with the child.
When Narcissist Says “I Love You” – What Does It Mean To Him?
Narcissists and borderlines often mislabel and misidentify their internal processes as love and intimacy, despite being incapable of experiencing true love or intimacy. They confuse dependency, limerence, exhibitionism, masochism, defiance, competitiveness, possessiveness, neediness, and people-pleasing with love and intimacy. This mislabeling is an attempt at self-restoration and bridging confabulation, as they have a diminished self-insight and inability to introspect. Their constant attempt to explain or describe their internal processes is an effort to restore their being, relationship with the world, and ultimately their identity.
Contemporary Sexuality, Relationships in West – History
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the history of contemporary sexuality, from the 18th century to the present day. He highlights the shift in sexual attitudes and practices, the impact of technology and societal changes, and the current trend of avoiding relationships and embracing celibacy. Vaknin emphasizes the influence of historical periods on modern sexuality and the ongoing struggle to reconcile traditional and modern attitudes towards sex and relationships. He also encourages feedback and discussion on the topic.
Been Played? Trust Again: Vulnerability, Growth, Healing
In today’s age of pervasive distrust, personal growth and healing depend on our ability to trust and display vulnerabilities. The lack of trust in relationships has led to a rise in infidelity and a decline in marriage rates and birth rates. To restore trust, we must learn to discern true friends from fake ones and develop our vulnerabilities as assets. Trust is essential for love and personal growth, and while it should not be given indiscriminately, taking calculated risks in trusting others can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Narcissist’s Dead Parents Resurrected in His Children
Narcissists often try to recreate their own parents in their offspring, molding their children to resemble their parents’ attributes and behavior patterns. This creates an intergenerational trauma by replicating early childhood conflicts with their own children. Narcissistic parents treat their children as extensions of themselves and use them for their own gratification, leading to a cycle of narcissism. In modern society, many parents may exhibit narcissistic tendencies, raising the question of whether narcissism is becoming the new mode of parenting.
Your Life Meaningless? Choose Nothingness! (ENGLISH from 02:01)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the failure of modern society to progress meaningfully despite advancements in science and reason. He highlights the prevalence of wars, refugees, gender conflicts, and antisocial behaviors, indicating a collective and individual failure. Vaknin criticizes materialism and the prioritization of objects over human relationships, calling it a death cult. He advocates for self-reflection and the pursuit of solutions to the human condition, emphasizing the importance of questioning and addressing systemic failures. Vaknin introduces his “nothingness” philosophy, which involves peeling away layers of societal influence to reveal one’s true essence. He argues against the pursuit of material success and encourages a focus on personal growth and authenticity. Vaknin also discusses the dangers of societal norms that promote dominance, complexity, and certainty, and instead recommends embracing happiness, meaning, uncertainty, and the journey of life. He concludes by emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, self-acceptance, self-love, and self-regulation as components of a healthy, authentic existence.
Why Men Abuse Modern Women, Degrade Them Sexually
Women are now more educated and financially successful than men, leading to a shift in traditional gender roles. However, in sex and interpersonal relationships, women are less empowered than ever, as men use these areas to assert their dominance and punish women for their success. This has led to an increase in infidelity, toxic masculinity, and dark triad personalities in both men and women. As a result, commitment in relationships is declining, and the battle between the sexes is becoming increasingly destructive.
Why Narcissist Hates Your Unborn Child in Shared Fantasy
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses how narcissists react to pregnancy and childbirth. He explains that the changes in a pregnant woman challenge the narcissist’s control and idealized image of their partner, leading to feelings of abandonment and insecurity. The narcissist may devalue and discard their partner, feeling threatened by the loss of attention and control. The pregnancy disrupts the narcissist’s shared fantasy and triggers a desperate attempt to maintain the grandiose fantasy. Ultimately, the narcissist perceives pregnancy as a threat to their control and attempts to suppress any signs of independence or life in their partner.