Errors: Charlatan Self-styled “Experts” CORRECTED
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the differences between narcissistic collapse, narcissistic injury, and narcissistic mortification. He also addresses the misconceptions and misinformation about these concepts by self-styled experts. Additionally, he explains the significance of trauma, emotional dysregulation, and dissociation in psychology, and provides a simple test to identify genuine expertise in the field.
My Name is Sam Vaknin: Narcissists, Psychopaths, Abuse
Sam Vaknin discusses the prevalence of narcissists and psychopaths in society, their manipulative and dangerous nature, and the importance of recognizing and coping with them. He emphasizes the unique and pervasive nature of narcissistic abuse, and the necessity of implementing a comprehensive “no-contact” strategy to protect oneself from it.
Self-hoovering, Narcissism: Trauma or Role Play?
Narcissists devalue and discard their intimate partners, but in long-term relationships, the partner may engage in self-hovering, refusing to leave despite being discarded. This self-hovering is a trauma-bonding response, allowing the partner to remain in the relationship. The narcissist’s voice in the victim’s mind re-idealizes her, leading to a continued relationship with the internal representation of the narcissist. Narcissism is both a post-traumatic condition and a choice-based role play, with the narcissist unable to modify most of his traits but able to control his behaviors and the roles he plays in different social settings.
When YOU Discard the Narcissist FIRST
The text discusses the consequences of discarding a narcissist before they have a chance to devalue and discard you. It explains the potential outcomes of this action, such as narcissistic injury or mortification, and the subsequent behaviors of the narcissist, including seeking revenge or finding a replacement. The text also delves into the narcissist’s internal processes and their need to complete the stages of grief and mourning for the disrupted shared fantasy.
Narcissist: You Should Read My Mind!
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the narcissist’s belief that others should be able to read their mind. He explains that narcissists expect mind reading due to their view of others as maternal figures and their desire for symbiosis. He delves into the narcissist’s internal world, including their need for extensionality and intentionality of external objects. Vaknin also explores the impact of failing to read the narcissist’s mind on their perception of external objects and their own existence. He emphasizes the deep-rooted nature of narcissistic behaviors and the challenges in understanding and working with narcissists.
Enmeshment Types Narcissist’s, Codependent’s, Borderline’s
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the dynamics of enmeshment, engulfment, merger, fusion, and symbiosis in relationships with individuals with cluster B personality disorders. He explains the differences in these dynamics between narcissists, borderlines, and codependents, highlighting their unique approaches to intimacy and control. Vaknin also challenges common misconceptions about these behaviors and their underlying motivations.
Masked Narcissist: Private Vs. Public Personas
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of the narcissist’s persona and mask. He explains that the narcissist’s persona is a facade, a shell, and a mask that the narcissist uses to interact with the world. He delves into the psychological theories of persona, impression management, and individuation, and how they relate to the development of narcissism. Vaknin emphasizes that the narcissist lacks a true self and is essentially a collection of interchangeable masks, with no core identity. He also highlights the narcissist’s inability to be a member of the audience in social interactions, leading to a lack of genuine connection and a perpetual need for attention and validation.
Autists Lack Empathy, Empaths Deceive, Manipulate
Sam Vaknin discusses two new studies that support his long-held beliefs. The first study shows that children with autism spectrum disorder lack empathy and experience difficulties with self-conscious emotions, such as guilt and shame. The second study suggests that individuals who label themselves as “empaths” are likely covert narcissists and psychopaths who engage in deceptive virtue signaling. Vaknin’s interpretations of these studies may be controversial, but he stands by his claims.
When Hidden Narcissist Takes Over Narcissistic Tunneling ( Empaths , Coverts, Somatic, Cerebral)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissistic tunneling, where a narcissist’s dominant and recessive traits manifest in disguised and camouflaged forms. He provides examples of how different types of narcissists exhibit traits of their hidden type through this process. Vaknin emphasizes the ongoing power play and competition between the dominant and recessive types, and how the dominant type serves as a protective barrier against the recessive type. He also highlights the significance of environmental and societal influences in shaping the expression of narcissistic traits.
Narcissist’s 10 Body Postures, Psychopath’s Physique
The text discusses the body language and body image of narcissists and psychopaths. It delves into the complex relationship these individuals have with their bodies, including how they use body language to manipulate and control others. The text also touches on the treatability of body dysmorphic and somatoform disorders through therapy.