Metaverse Sex and Gender: Sex Bots and AI (Artificial Intelligence)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the future of sex and relationships, which he believes will be dominated by artificial intelligence and virtual reality. He presents two examples of ethical dilemmas that arise from this new normal, including the question of whether a woman using a haptic dildo is really a man and whether having sex with an artificial intelligence robot is cheating on a partner. Vaknin argues that these issues challenge the very fabric of reality and society’s organization by gender and sex, and that we are poorly equipped to cope with the Blade Runner era that is fast approaching.
No “Wrong” Partner, Other Moronic Relationship Advice
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of mate selection and attachment styles. He argues that individuals tend to select partners who resonate with their psychological makeup and attachment style, and that this is a result of an evolutionary process. Vaknin also emphasizes the importance of considering a partner’s past behavior as the best predictor of future behavior, contrary to the advice given by some self-help gurus. He warns against blindly following online advice and encourages individuals to be thorough in understanding their potential intimate partners.
Deprogram the Narcissist in Your Mind
Narcissists play the role of a good enough mother, adopting a maternal role and idealizing their victims. They regress their victims to infancy, merging and fusing with them, eliminating their individuality and appropriating their individuality. The narcissist creates an introject, an internal representation of the victim, which is muted and spews out words attributed to the introject by the narcissist. The victim has an introject of the narcissist in their head, which is fully active and talks a lot, becoming a second, harsh, sadistic inner critic. The current advice to recognize and embrace victimhood is counterproductive, as it freezes the emergent roles allocated by the narcissist, and the locus of control remains in the narcissist’s hands. Victims need to extricate
Women: Red Pill Nonsense Refuted
Professor Sam Vaknin’s lecture discusses the misconceptions and myths perpetuated by the manosphere community. He refutes the idea that the Pareto principle applies to dating and mating, stating that women prefer “beta males” over “alpha males” even for one-night stands. Vaknin also debunks the myth of hypergamy, stating that women have been marrying down in recent years due to increased education and income levels. Lastly, he addresses the myth that women do not consume as much pornography as men, explaining that women consume more text-based pornography than visual pornography.
Borderlines: No Win Relationships, BPD Enigmas Decoded
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the complex dynamics between individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) in intimate relationships. He explains that people with BPD experience two types of anxiety: abandonment anxiety and engulfment anxiety. These anxieties lead to approach-avoidance behaviors, which can be disorienting and confusing for their partners. Vaknin also highlights the concept of dual mothering in narcissist-borderline relationships, where the narcissist provides unconditional love to the borderline, while the borderline becomes the narcissist’s “dead mother,” allowing the narcissist to attempt to heal and fix their original mother through the borderline partner. This dynamic creates a strong bond between the two, making it difficult for them to separate.
Borderline is Narcissist’s “Dead” Mother, Parentifies Him as Her Rescuer (EXCERPT)
Borderlines tend to team up with narcissists in intimate relationships, and the borderline narcissistic couple is a well-established clinical fact. The reason for this is that the borderline and the narcissist trigger each other’s wounds, what Joanna La Chapelle calls the V-spot, the vulnerability spot. The narcissist becomes a maternal figure, and in return, the intimate partner mothers the narcissist. When the narcissist teams up with a borderline, the borderline becomes the narcissist’s dead mother, and by becoming his dead mother, she allows him to parentify himself.
Testosterone, Oxytocin, Dopamine: 3 Ages of Civilization
The text discusses the three ages of civilization, each characterized by a different biochemical: testosterone, oxytocin, and dopamine. It explores how these biochemicals correspond to social and cultural structures and behaviors, such as patriarchy, romanticism, and addiction. The transition from one age to another is described as causing disorientation and societal changes. The dopamine age is depicted as an age of hedonism, atomization, and addiction, with significant implications for human behavior and society.
How to Fix Your Dead or Abusive Relationships
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses abusive and dead relationships in a three-part video. He describes the cycle of abuse outlined by the Council of Europe and the impact of abuse on victims. He also explains the signs of a dead relationship and offers advice on how to address issues and potentially revive the relationship. Vaknin emphasizes the importance of honest communication, vulnerability, and seeking support when dealing with these relationship dynamics.
Leap of Faith: Love Someone! Be Bold! Take Risk: Be Vulnerable!
Love is a paradoxical experience that requires vulnerability and self-transformation. To love is to take a risk and to be open to the possibility of heartbreak and destruction. Love is an act of faith that requires trust and the suspension of disbelief. The younger generations are too afraid to attempt this leap of faith from loneliness to love, and they avoid love and intimacy because they feel threatened.
Narcissist’s Dead Parents Resurrected in His Children
Narcissists often try to recreate their own parents in their offspring, molding their children to resemble their parents’ attributes and behavior patterns. This creates an intergenerational trauma by replicating early childhood conflicts with their own children. Narcissistic parents treat their children as extensions of themselves and use them for their own gratification, leading to a cycle of narcissism. In modern society, many parents may exhibit narcissistic tendencies, raising the question of whether narcissism is becoming the new mode of parenting.