Back to the Future: Spectacle of Narcissism, Spectre of Psychopathy (Convo with Alex Kazemi)
Sam Vaknin discusses the dangers of social media culture, the shift from narcissism to psychopathy in society, and the current state of gender and sexuality. He argues that the prevalence of screens has led to isolation and atomization, forcing individuals to be self-sufficient and cutting them off from empathy. Vaknin also believes that privacy is a modern invention and that the less private we are, the better off we feel psychologically. He predicts that a totally psychopathic civilization is on the horizon and that elites want to make everyone a slave, not because they are evil, but because it is in their self-interest.
Narcissist: Traumatized Child Invents God, Then Abuses (with Charles Bowes-Taylor)
Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissism and how it is a product of childhood trauma and abuse. He explains that narcissists have no self or ego and must outsource functions such as feedback and input from others to form an opinion of themselves and the world around them. Sam also suggests that narcissism is a metaphor for our times and captures perfectly our civilization. He argues that narcissism is a positive adaptation that helps individuals obtain favorable outcomes in the world, and that very few narcissists feel shame or have an incentive to change.
Ten Plagues of COVID-19, How Viruses Work, Message (last 3 minutes)
Sam Vaknin discusses the unintended consequences of quarantine and social distancing, such as the potential for famine due to locust swarms in East Africa. He also delves into the virology of COVID-19, shedding light on how viruses operate in the body and the potential implications for vaccination. Additionally, he addresses the psychological impact of confinement measures and the post-traumatic stress disorder experienced by healthcare workers.
COVID-19: Good News and is God Evil for Allowing It to Happen? (LAST MINUTE)
The text discusses the problem of evil and the concept of God’s omnipotence and omniscience. It argues that if God exists, his mind is inaccessible to humans and that we cannot fathom his intentions or reasoning. The text also explores the idea of free will and the role of humans in fighting evil. It concludes by suggesting that it is up to individuals to take responsibility for their actions and shape the world they live in.
Casual Sex Q&A: The Fake Intimacy of Bodies
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the impact of casual sex and infidelity on romantic relationships. He explores the psychological and emotional implications of promiscuity, the changing dynamics of mate selection, and the rise of narcissistic and psychopathic behaviors in women. Vaknin also delves into the complexities of intimacy, gender roles, and the challenges of modern relationships. He concludes by examining the impact of mental illness on individuals’ coping strategies and their ultimate relationship with death.
Promiscuity: Psychology of Self-Soothing with Sex (oh, and Relationships)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the topic of promiscuity, its various causes, and its connection to mental health disorders. He delves into the psychological and behavioral aspects of promiscuity, including its association with narcissism, psychopathy, and dissociation. He also explores the impact of promiscuity on intimate relationships and societal changes. The presentation provides a comprehensive analysis of the complex and multifaceted nature of promiscuity.
Viral Brave, New World of Lonely Narcissism
The pandemic is petering out due to the typical dynamics of a self-limiting virus of the SARS family, not due to social distancing. However, a newborn baby dying in the US of COVID-19 suggests that the virus is mutating and possibly recombining with a flu virus, which could lead to a Spanish flu-like pandemic that could kill up to 1 billion people. The pandemic has exposed structural weaknesses in society, including a lack of solidarity between young and old, a narcissistic preoccupation with our bodies, and a rise in loneliness and aloneness. Gender roles are also becoming more fluid and inverted in a uni-gender world.
Social Distancing: Isolation with the Narcissist
Social isolation with a narcissist can be compared to a hostage situation, with the victim experiencing trauma bonding. In this situation, the narcissist becomes paranoid and develops a need for control, which is displaced onto their spouse or intimate partner. The narcissist’s frustration at being unable to obtain narcissistic supply and loss of control can lead to aggression, which can take many forms. The only technique that may work in this situation is background noise, but even this has a limited shelf life, and there is a risk of an epidemic of domestic violence.
COVID-19 Punishes Our Narcissism (Original Sin, WATCH 1st VID, Links in Description)
The coronavirus pandemic is seen by some as a solution to the ills of modern society, with the hope that it will restore solidarity, family, friendship, community, and harmony. However, this nihilistic state of mind has resulted in people violently castigating anyone who tries to restore calm and good sense to the conversation. The pandemic will be followed by a massive global but short recession that will probably last two quarters, but will be followed by a period of prosperity. The disruptive psychological effects of these health crises and the strain on interpersonal relationships will be felt long after the virus is gone, and possibly the greatest effect will be on the increasingly more atomized social fabric.
Borderline Woman: Partner Devaluation, Self-harm, Alcoholism
In summary, Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the psychology of borderline women, focusing on splitting, self-destructive behaviors, and substance abuse. Splitting is an infantile defense mechanism that leads to idealization and devaluation of others. Self-destructive behaviors can include risky sexual encounters, reckless behavior, and defiance. Substance abuse, particularly alcohol, can serve as a coping mechanism for negative emotions, restore self-confidence, lower inhibitions, and allow for the accomplishment of goals that would not be considered when sober.