When Narcissist Is Rejected By Peers
The text discusses the etiology of pathological narcissism, focusing on the impact of peer rejection on children who are already facing challenges such as autism, obesity, or gender dysphoria. It explains how peer rejection triggers cognitive dissonance and leads to the development of narcissistic defenses, such as fantasy, dissociation, and displaced passive aggression. The author also delves into the impact of conflicting parental messaging and the role of intimate partners in the narcissist’s life. Ultimately, the text highlights the inner battle within the narcissist’s soul and the crisis they face when they have to shed their perceived divinity.
Narcissist’s 10 Body Postures, Psychopath’s Physique
The text discusses the body language and body image of narcissists and psychopaths. It delves into the complex relationship these individuals have with their bodies, including how they use body language to manipulate and control others. The text also touches on the treatability of body dysmorphic and somatoform disorders through therapy.
How Dark Tetrads Confuse Your Therapist, Coach
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the differences between mental illnesses, particularly personality disorders, and the importance of accurate differential diagnosis. He emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding of these disorders and criticizes the misinformation spread by self-styled experts online. Vaknin also addresses the need for a more nuanced approach to diagnosing and understanding these disorders, highlighting the complexity of the human mind.
Harmony: How Narcissist Experiences Partner’s Infidelity
The text is a story called “Harmony” about a man discovering his wife’s infidelity and their subsequent conversation. The man suggests a year-long separation to reassess their relationship, and the wife tearfully agrees to stay. The man reflects on his feelings of detachment and the inevitability of their eventual separation.
Two Inner Children Parentified In Narcissist’s Shared Fantasy
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of the inner child in the context of narcissistic relationships. He explains how narcissists regress their partners to a childlike state and then coerce them to parent the narcissist. This dynamic leads to dysfunctional behaviors and mental illness. The professor also criticizes psychology as a pseudoscience and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a connection with the inner child while avoiding regression.
Study: Narcissists Cheat MORE? Only Partly True! (And Why They Cheat)
A study on narcissism and infidelity found that grandiose narcissistic women are more likely to have favorable attitudes towards infidelity, while their male partners are less likely to cheat. Vulnerable narcissists, both male and female, are more likely to have favorable attitudes towards infidelity. Additionally, the number of premarital partners is linked to higher rates of divorce and infidelity, with those having nine or more partners being at a higher risk. Narcissists cheat for reasons such as seeking narcissistic supply, avoiding intimacy and commitment, and asserting control. They may also use infidelity as a way to rejuvenate their primary relationship.
Narcissist Needs You to Fail Him, Let Go (with Azam Ali)
In this conversation, Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissistic abuse and the dynamics of narcissistic relationships. He explains the narcissist’s need for existence and the victim’s hunger for love and intimacy, highlighting the irreconcilable nature of these two needs. He also emphasizes the importance of insight and empathy in understanding oneself and others.
Why Dating Narcissists is Addictive (With Diana and Mari)
The conversation is a recording of a discussion with professor Sam Vaknin about narcissism. The participants express gratitude for his insights and discuss their experiences with narcissistic abuse. Vaknin explains the inability of narcissists to love and the complexities of relationships with them. He also discusses the concept of narcissistic abuse and its increasing prevalence in society.
“Bipolar” Narcissist Euphoric, Dysphoric Fantasies
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the role of fantasy in regulating the moods of narcissists, distinguishing between euphoric and dysphoric fantasies. He explains how cognitive distortions protect the narcissist’s fantasy defense mechanism and delves into the connection between narcissism and post-traumatic conditions. Additionally, he announces a new channel with translations of his videos into Portuguese and provides links to other translated channels.
Taker, User Narcissist Feels Loved, Vindicated
Narcissists and psychopaths are users and takers due to their upbringing in environments where they learned to give minimally and conditionally. They lack positive emotions and empathy, so they view relationships as transactional and seek to maximize their returns while minimizing their investment. They perceive taking as a substitute for love and feel entitled to receive love through material goods, services, and power. They exploit and devalue others, using them until they have nothing left to offer, then walk away. The narcissist deludes themselves into believing their shared fantasy is real, while the psychopath is fully aware it’s a manipulation. Both lack empathy and use others for their own gain.