Debunking the Human Mind, Condition (with Isabella Wang, EXCERPTS)
The text is a conversation between two individuals discussing various topics, including the role of technology, the impact of transitions in human history, and the challenges of reaching a consensus in society. They also touch on the concept of consciousness and the impact of consumerism on nature and human relationships. The conversation ends with a toast to the last sip of wine.
Mythbusting the Human Mind, Condition (Starts 18:18 with Isabella Wang )
The text is a conversation between two individuals discussing various topics, including the role of technology, the state of humanity, and the impact of transitions on society. They touch on the lack of consensus in modern transitions and the need for collaboration to ensure a better future. The conversation delves into the impact of consumerism and the shift towards a death cult, emphasizing the need to prioritize life and nature. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern society and the potential consequences of celebrating death.
Resist When Narcissist Triggers You Inner Voices (Death, God, Life Introjects)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the three types of voices in a narcissist: the voice of death, the God voice, and the life voice. These voices are introjects that originate from parental figures, role models, and caregivers. When a narcissist enters a relationship, they implant these voices in their partner’s mind, triggering corresponding introjects in the partner. To heal from a narcissistic relationship, one must identify and eradicate these implanted voices and replace them with their own authentic voice.
How To Talk to Narcissist, Borderline, OCD (with Joan J. Lachkar)
The text is a conversation between Sam Vaknin and Joanne Yuta Lachkar. They discuss the dynamics of narcissistic and borderline relationships, the impact of early childhood experiences, and the role of countertransference in therapy. They also touch on the topic of affairs and their effects on individuals.
SECRET Reason Narcissist Devalues, Discards YOU
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the mysterious behavior of narcissists, including devaluation, discard, and replacement. He explains that narcissists recreate the dynamics of their early childhood conflicts with their mothers through their intimate partners, aiming to achieve successful separation and individuation. The narcissist devalues and discards their partner as a way to separate from them, and this process is not the partner’s fault. Vaknin also discusses how urbanization and the rise of cities have contributed to the increase in narcissism, and he predicts that the transition from cities to the metaverse will lead to a shift from narcissism to psychopathy.
How Narcissist Steals Your Unconscious, Lures YOU into His Nightmare World
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses how narcissists lure their victims into their surreal and nightmarish world. He compares the experience of being with a narcissist to various literary and philosophical examples, such as Alice in Wonderland and Lacan’s mirror stage. Narcissists create a dreamlike state for their victims, causing them to lose their sense of self and reality. The narcissist’s world is one of infinite emptiness, where victims become trapped in a maze of mirrors, unable to find their way out.
Insider View on Narcissism: What Makes Narcissist Tick (News Intervention Interview)
Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by a lack of empathy, grandiosity, and attention-seeking behavior. Narcissistic abuse is a subtype of abusive behavior that is pervasive, sophisticated, and manipulative, with the intention to negate the victim’s personal autonomy and well-being. Victims of narcissistic abuse often experience depression, anxiety, disorientation, and trauma bonding. To cope with narcissists, one can employ various techniques, such as setting boundaries, avoiding confrontation, and seeking support from others.
Watch, IF YOU DARE! Narcissist: Shocking New View (Part 2 of Interview with Sandy Ghazal Ansari)
In this lecture, Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissism in relation to Freud and Jung’s theories. He explains how narcissism is the defining feature of personality and how it is linked to the development of the self. Vaknin also delves into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and the impact of childhood trauma and learning disabilities on the development of personality disorders. He also explores the concept of the true self and the false self, as well as the role of group dynamics in shaping individual identity.
Psychologists Wrong to Discard Earlier Wisdom (Part 1 of Interview with Sandy Ghazal Ansari)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the state of psychology education and the shift towards quantitative and statistical approaches in the field. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining a textual and qualitative approach to psychology, and laments the loss of wisdom from earlier psychological schools. Vaknin also delves into his personal journey with psychology, his admiration for Freud, and his eclectic approach to integrating various psychological theories. He critiques the concept of the individual and the ego, and advocates for a more grounded and flexible understanding of psychological constructs.
Talk That Defies a Title (Assembly of Silence Radio Hour (ASRH))
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses various topics including his views on narcissism, the impact of psychology on society, and the potential of artificial intelligence (AI). He criticizes psychology as a pseudoscience that promotes solipsistic and atomized views of individuals, leading to a society where people are treated as objects. Vaknin sees AI as a hopeful solution, as it operates as a pure network concept that cannot be corrupted and has self-correcting and self-learning capabilities. He also touches on the changing nature of human relationships and the decline of intimacy among younger generations. Vaknin believes that integrating AI with human systems, with proper safeguards, is the only hope for addressing the challenges posed by narcissistic and psychopathic behaviors in society.