When YOU Discard the Narcissist FIRST
The text discusses the consequences of discarding a narcissist before they have a chance to devalue and discard you. It explains the potential outcomes of this action, such as narcissistic injury or mortification, and the subsequent behaviors of the narcissist, including seeking revenge or finding a replacement. The text also delves into the narcissist’s internal processes and their need to complete the stages of grief and mourning for the disrupted shared fantasy.
When Hidden Narcissist Takes Over Narcissistic Tunneling ( Empaths , Coverts, Somatic, Cerebral)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of narcissistic tunneling, where a narcissist’s dominant and recessive traits manifest in disguised and camouflaged forms. He provides examples of how different types of narcissists exhibit traits of their hidden type through this process. Vaknin emphasizes the ongoing power play and competition between the dominant and recessive types, and how the dominant type serves as a protective barrier against the recessive type. He also highlights the significance of environmental and societal influences in shaping the expression of narcissistic traits.
Narcissist’s 10 Body Postures, Psychopath’s Physique
The text discusses the body language and body image of narcissists and psychopaths. It delves into the complex relationship these individuals have with their bodies, including how they use body language to manipulate and control others. The text also touches on the treatability of body dysmorphic and somatoform disorders through therapy.
Harmony: How Narcissist Experiences Partner’s Infidelity
The text is a story called “Harmony” about a man discovering his wife’s infidelity and their subsequent conversation. The man suggests a year-long separation to reassess their relationship, and the wife tearfully agrees to stay. The man reflects on his feelings of detachment and the inevitability of their eventual separation.
Two Inner Children Parentified In Narcissist’s Shared Fantasy
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of the inner child in the context of narcissistic relationships. He explains how narcissists regress their partners to a childlike state and then coerce them to parent the narcissist. This dynamic leads to dysfunctional behaviors and mental illness. The professor also criticizes psychology as a pseudoscience and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a connection with the inner child while avoiding regression.
Toxic positivity, Toxic Gratitude, Malignant Optimism: Self-gaslighting
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of “self gaslighting,” where individuals deceive themselves into believing that they cannot trust their own understanding of reality. He explores three forms of self gaslighting: toxic positivity, toxic gratitude, and malignant optimism. He emphasizes the negative impact of denying one’s true emotions and the need to accept and address negative feelings. Vaknin also highlights the prevalence of self-gaslighting in society and its contribution to rising rates of depression and anxiety.
Competitive Victimhood: Dark Triad ADHD Activists ( Literature Review)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the subversion of public discourse by victimhood movements and identity politics. He argues that many social and political activists are mentally ill, particularly narcissistic and psychopathic, and that victimhood has become a competitive identity. He reviews several studies that link virtue signaling to dark triad personality traits and explores the consequences of the tendency for interpersonal victimhood. Vaknin also discusses the surprising political activity of individuals with ADHD and the impact of victimhood on social and political dynamics. He warns of the dangerous implications of victimhood and calls for a collective fight against it.
“ Science” Of Psychology: Presentism, Other Errors
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the limitations of psychology and social sciences, arguing that they cannot be considered true sciences due to their reliance on social and cultural values. He highlights the concept of presentism and anachronism in historical and psychological analysis, emphasizing the influence of contemporary beliefs and values on research and teaching. Vaknin also addresses the shifting meanings of words and the prevalence of misinformation in psychology and related fields, ultimately critiquing the pretension of psychology as a science and the toxic nature of the self-help industry.
Flying Monkeys of Narcissist Zero: Language of Narcissistic Abuse
Professor Sam Vaknin insists on being credited for his work because he values history and memory. He claims to have coined a significant amount of language related to narcissism and narcissistic abuse, and he believes it’s important to recognize paternity, provenance, and intellectual lineage. He argues that plagiarism is intellectual murder and that people deserve credit for their work. He sees the lack of recognition as a threat to civilization, as it sacrifices time and memory for instant gratification.
What’s Wrong with Our Dystopian World (Starts at 05:56)
The text is a rant about the state of the world, discussing various societal issues and expressing dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs. It covers topics such as internet stickiness, narcissistic behavior, societal norms, censorship, and the decline of traditional values. The author expresses a bleak outlook on the future of humanity and the world.