Is your DATE a NARCISSIST? (EXCERPT with Conor Ryan, Eyes Wide Open Podcast)
Trust your instincts and observe the man’s behavior for signs of narcissism, such as boundary breaches, controlling behavior, and rapid relationship progression. Pay attention to how he treats others and his speech patterns. Narcissists create a shared fantasy and regress their partners to a dependent state. Women have caught up with men in exhibiting narcissistic traits, and female narcissists may also display histrionic behavior.
Narcissist and YOU: Tour the Nightmare (with Monique Rigney)
The text is a conversation between two individuals discussing various topics, including narcissism, memory, and societal issues. They touch on the impact of trauma on memory, the role of victimhood in society, and the decline of human interaction in the digital age. The conversation also delves into the impact of feminism and the changing dynamics between men and women.
War as Narcissistic Fantasy (with Trisha Goddard on TALKTV)
Sam Vaknin discusses the dehumanization of the enemy in war, emphasizing the psychological defense mechanism of splitting and the role of war in creating a new order. He also delves into the language of war as a fantasy defense and its impact on perception of the enemy. Vaknin draws parallels between war and narcissistic behavior, highlighting the antisocial and psychopathic aspects of war.
You! Be GRATEFUL, HONORED That Narcissist Lets You Serve, Witness Him (Sacrificial Entitlement)
The text discusses the concept of sacrificial entitlement in narcissists. It explains how narcissists believe they are sacrificing their divine qualities to be with their partners and expect gratitude and obedience in return. The text also delves into the narcissist’s perspective on the breakup, viewing it as ingratitude from the partner. It highlights the narcissist’s belief that they have given their partner everything and the partner’s rejection is seen as a form of devaluation.
Overprotective Parents And Manipulative Helplessness
The text discusses the negative impact of overprotective parents on their children. It explains how overprotective parents prevent their children from experiencing reality, growth, and separation, leading to lifelong consequences. The text also delves into the behavior of narcissists and the dynamics of relationships between overprotective parents and their children as well as between dependent partners and primary partners. It highlights the detrimental effects of overprotection on the child’s development and the perpetuation of dysfunctional behaviors in adulthood.
Miracles: Real – or Delusional Disorder?
The text discusses the philosophical and historical context of miracles and wonders, exploring the possibility of supernatural phenomena and their relation to mental illness. It delves into various perspectives, including those of Jewish Rabbi Nachmanides, philosopher Baruch Spinoza, and Immanuel Kant, as well as the views of the author, Sam Vaknin. The discussion covers the nature of miracles, divine intervention, and the compatibility of miracles with natural laws, ultimately highlighting the complexity and mystery surrounding these phenomena.
Homosexuality As Othering Failure
The text discusses the terminology of sex and gender, debunks myths about homosexuality, and explores the psychological aspects of homosexuality, including its relation to othering and the formation of sexual identity. It also delves into the differences between homosexuality and other psychological conditions such as narcissism and autoerotism. The text emphasizes the role of fantasy and the need for external regulation in the context of homosexuality.
Narcissist vs. Borderline On Autopilot: Depersonalization Derealization Disorder
The text is an excerpt from a book discussing depersonalization and derealization. It describes the experiences and symptoms of these conditions, and compares their manifestation in narcissistic and borderline personality disorders. The author, Sam Vaknin, explains the differences in how these disorders present and how they relate to reality testing and dissociation. He also discusses the impact of depersonalization and derealization on memory, emotions, and self-perception in both disorders.
Mental Health Dictionary – Letter C
The text discusses various mental health terms starting with the letter C, such as catatonia, circumstantiality, compulsion, concrete thinking, and culture-bound syndrome. It also mentions the Chinese Classification of Mental Disorders and the conflict tactics scale. The author plans to continue with the letter D in the next installment.
Male or Female Narcissist in Dating (17:41), Workplace (with Connor Ryan) (EXCERPT)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the prevalence of narcissism in various professions, including the entertainment industry and corporate settings. He also delves into the traits and behaviors of narcissists and offers advice on how to identify and deal with them in different contexts. Additionally, he explores the impact of technology and societal trends on the rise of narcissism and the infiltration of victimhood movements by narcissists and psychopaths.