What Is Acting Out? (and Covert Narcissist)
Acting out is a way for individuals to discharge conflicted mental content through action, often as a result of being unable to verbalize or communicate their internal struggles. It is commonly associated with personality disorders and can lead to self-destructive behaviors. Acting out can be seen as a form of somatization, using the body to remember and process repressed memories and emotions. It is important to distinguish acting out from other concepts such as acting in, passage à l’acte, and bad behavior, as they have different implications and meanings.
Borderline: Narcissist’s Mirror (and Avoidant Personality Disorder)
The text discusses the relationship between borderline personality disorder and narcissism, suggesting that the borderline is a mirror image of the narcissist. It delves into the behaviors and reactions of both, highlighting the differences and similarities between the two disorders. The text also explores avoidant personality disorder and its distinct characteristics.
Down God’s Rabbit Hole: Religious Apologetics
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses his experience at a Cold Therapy seminar in Romania and his thoughts on a book he received as a gift. He critiques arguments made in the book about atheism, religion, and spirituality, and emphasizes the importance of reason and trust in understanding the world. He also challenges the concepts of intelligent design and the existence of God.
GREAT NEWS New Treatments, BPD Redefined ( Borderline Personality Disorder Literature Review)
Recent studies have challenged common perceptions of borderline personality disorder. One study found that individuals can qualify for a diagnosis without engaging in self-harm or self-mutilation. Another study showed that combining individual and group schema therapy can lead to a reduction in symptoms for patients with borderline personality disorder. Additionally, a study suggested that early interventions focusing on clinical case management and psychiatric care may be more effective for young patients with borderline personality disorder than individual psychotherapy. Other studies explored the effectiveness of various psychotherapies and interventions for borderline personality disorder, with mixed results.
YOU are Narcissist’s Tradition, His Reflexive Self
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of the reflexive self, which is the idea that individuals form their identities through constant self-reflection and self-awareness. He explains that in traditional societies, self-reflection was limited by the boundaries set by traditions, which provided a sense of stability and ontological security. However, in post-traditional societies, the collapse of traditions has led to an extension of reflexivity, which can be both empowering and anxiety-inducing. While Giddens’ work on reflexivity has been criticized for oversimplifying the relationship between social structures and individual agency, it remains an important concept in understanding the formation of identity in contemporary society.
2 Types of Bad Partner: Too Present, or Too Absent
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the issue of selecting the wrong bed partners, attributing it to insecure attachment styles developed in dysfunctional families. He identifies two types of bad partners: those who are absent and threaten presence, and those who smother with their presence and threaten with their absence. He explains that individuals from dysfunctional families tend to alternate between these two types of partners in an attempt to compensate for the deficiencies of the previous partner. These patterns are a result of unresolved childhood conflicts and the need to reenact them in adult relationships.
Why Narcissist Distrusts You ( Ontological Insecurity)
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of ontological insecurity and its impact on identity. He emphasizes the importance of ontological security in developing a stable sense of self-identity and the potential consequences of ontological insecurity on mental and physical health. Vaknin also highlights the role of trust and the impact of modern society on ontological security. He references the work of Anthony Giddens and advocates for the reintroduction of past psychological concepts into education.
People are Like Trees: Roots and Obstacles (by Jennifer Howard)
Psychopathologies are adaptive mechanisms that allow individuals to grow around obstacles and reach a functional equilibrium. Humans are a life form that forms personality structures optimally suited to their needs and outside constraints. Personality configurations may be abnormal, but their existence proves they have triumphed in the delicate task of successful adaptation. Life events contribute to the weaving of the delicate fabric that we call personality.
Snippets from Cold Therapy Seminar in Drobeta Turnu Severin, Romania
The text covers various topics, including the author’s book “Cold Therapy,” the importance of autonomy and independence in intimate relationships, the problem with the current transgender movement, and the concept of the mother interject and false self in narcissism. The author emphasizes the need for gender-neutral institutions and the potential abuse of the victimhood movement by narcissists and psychopaths. The author also discusses the risks and benefits of cold therapy in eliminating the false self in narcissism.
Victim of Abuse: Rescue Me NOT! Back Off!
Professor Sam Vaknin warns against attempting to rescue victims of narcissistic abuse, as they are often trauma-bonded to their abuser and may not want to be saved. Victims may have a shared fantasy with their abuser, which is their comfort zone, and may resent any attempts to extricate them from it. Vaknin identifies five common fallacies that victims of narcissistic abuse may hold, including the belief that their abuser defines who they are and that they are lucky to have found them. Any attempts to rescue or fix the victim may be rebuffed, and the rescuer may be perceived as a threat.