Sam Vaknin discusses a range of topics in these sections, including his theory of three types of narratives people use to relate to the world, the problematization of issues in society, his agreement with Jordan Peterson’s values but criticism of
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of the “lone wolf narcissist” and its connection to schizoid personality disorder. He delves into the psychological and societal factors contributing to this phenomenon, emphasizing the impact of modern life on individualism and social
Sam Vaknin responds to questions from his audience, addressing topics such as narcissistic withdrawal, hoovering after modification, his decision not to have children, and his relationships with women. He explains his refusal to grow up and his acceptance of asymmetry
Kierkegaard believed that Jesus commanded us to love ourselves in order to love our neighbors, but Protestants believe that self-love is narcissism and a barrier to loving others. Kierkegaard believed that proper self-love makes us whole and complete persons, and
Professor Sam Vaknin delves into the relationship cycle with a narcissist, explaining the narcissist’s perception of love, abuse, and rejection. He discusses the narcissist’s internal struggle and the impact of repeated mortifications on the false self. Vaknin also explores the
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the topic of narcissistic mortification and its relationship to shame, particularly in the context of the current pandemic. He explains the psychological impact of the pandemic, the development of shame and narcissistic reactions, and the need
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the rise of narcissistic and psychopathic leaders, who embody the pathologies of their societies and cultures. These leaders foster a personality cult and often justify their actions through a sense of entitlement and grandiose fantasies. As
Professor Sam Vaknin acknowledges mispronouncing words in his videos and discusses the shared fantasy of the somatic narcissist, as well as how narcissists brainwash codependents through a process known as entraining. He explains that the shared fantasy involves co-idealization and
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of entraining, where a narcissist induces a hypnotic state in their victim. He also explores the impact of entraining on children and vulnerable individuals. Additionally, he delves into the dynamics of codependency, narcissism, and
Narcissists do not have a special gaze or eyebrows, despite myths and pseudoscience. However, victims’ claims of feeling brainwashed by narcissists and experiencing depersonalization and derealization are likely true. Narcissists use techniques such as intermittent reinforcement, trauma bonding, and verbal