Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the topics of cruelty and sadism, differentiating between the two. He explains that cruelty is reactive and a form of narcissistic defense, while sadism is focused on pleasure and involves premeditation and creativity. Cruelty is situational
The speaker shares their admiration for elephants and the wisdom they associate with the animal. They then proceed to outline six rules for living a balanced and healthy life, as imparted by their “Pachydermic friend.” The rules cover self-respect, advocating
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses mate selection and the impact of narcissism on modern relationships. He argues that people now seek partners who mirror their own traits and beliefs, rather than complementing them. This shift is attributed to the rise of
Norman Bates of Psycho fame is analyzed in relation to narcissistic mother identification. The film is a morality play where bad things happen to bad people. Norman is humorous and charming but has a harsh inner critic and is unable
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the impact of adoption and foster care on children’s mental health and behavior. He emphasizes the importance of early maternal care and the trauma experienced by children in these systems. He highlights the enduring psychological effects
Summary: The conversation covers the classification of narcissism, the differential diagnosis between antisocial personality disorder and covert narcissistic personality disorder, the challenges of treating personality disorders, and the dominance of CBT in psychotherapy in Iran. The discussion also delves into
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the complex dynamics of relationships involving covert borderline and borderline personality disorder individuals. He delves into the origins of these disorders, their impact on relationships, and the interplay between them. Vaknin also explores the psychological defenses
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the complex dynamics of relationships between covert borderlines and individuals with borderline personality disorder. He delves into the diagnostic criteria for borderline personality disorder and the impact of covert borderlines on their partners. The covert borderline’s
Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of late-onset trauma and its potential to cause enduring personality changes that could be classified as personality disorders. He explains that while early childhood trauma is often linked to the development of personality disorders, catastrophic
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, delving into the psychological dynamics of the parties involved. He highlights the trauma, grandiosity, impaired reality testing, and the need for enemies to define one’s identity. Vaknin emphasizes the importance of empathy and